One of the toughest things to face is when you get to a concrete wall and can't climb or break through it. My dads passing nov 2016 was that wall. My bestfriend/superhero was taken way too early. Who feels it knows it and I felt it with every muscle in my body. At the darkest area in my life ever, I used an obituary to get through it. I kept them in my car, my bathroom, anywhere I go. But some places he wasn't there, and getting a tattoo where I can look down and bring him everywhere I go is what I needed. I told myself 7 years ago I wouldn't get a tattoo unless it was meaningful to me, and meeting Grin he fulfilled that dark area in my life and although it may not be bright, my tattoo shined a brighter light in my life than I could ever imagine. You meet people everyday in life but the 3 days I spent getting my tattoo with grin was more meaningful then all the condolences I have ever received. I got a tattoo for life and also a genuine friend.